可否考虑一个职业精神解压版，叫happy工作和生活，帮助工作有压力的同学

[emilystudy]

学习90%以上是自己的事情，工作就不完全可以自己掌控，有时也会遇人不淑, 可能是上司，可能是同事。怎样处理这些可能存在的工作负面压力，每个同学都有自己的经验，大家可以交流经验，互相帮助，别因为一点由于他人的问题而把我们自己搞成精神犹豫，想不开，影响健康，影响事业，（有的人还开枪杀了别人）。。。我们现在是同学，等工作之后就会是同行，我们应该互相帮助共同提高，这也是为什么我觉得在异域他乡找到Laotu老师的学校，就像找到了组织找到了家的感觉。只是建议。emily

[ingrid]

Hi Emily

Hope you can see my reply.

Before giving birth to my son, I was extremely unhappy about my last job. I resigned and felt VERY happy about that. After my son's birth and when he was older, I looked for jobs then realized because of the bad economy few ideal jobs in the market and the competition was strong.

Because we have a mortgage to pay and I need flexibility from my job as no parents around to help, I asked my previous boss if I could get my job back. Yes, I did and I felt VERY happy about it.

See the difference? Nothing outside has changed but myself.

I also believe it is true that if you are no happy about something, do something to change it, if you can not change it, change your attitude.

I was sensitive to the environment and people's reaction to me too. But then I figured out "So What?" I can be not happy, I have my attitude and rights too. Do not think too much about others, you are unique.

Best luck & take care.

[emilystudy]

ingrid ，

谢谢你。我发现这里的同学很乐观很智慧，自己好像有回到了学生时代了。 Emily

[如月]

这就是?土校? 的特色， 没有一个大学can这么powerful

学习90%以上是自己的事情，工作就不完全可以自己掌控，有时也会遇人不淑, 可能是上司，可能是同事。怎样处理这些可能存在的工作负面压力，每个同学都有自己的经验，大家可以交流经验，互相帮助，别因为一点由于他人的问题而把我们自己搞成精神犹豫，想不开，影响健康，影响事业，（有的人还开枪杀了别人）。。。我们现在是同学，等工作之后就会是同行，我们应该互相帮助共同提高，这也是为什么我觉得在异域他乡找到Laotu老师的学校，就像找到了组织找到了家的感觉。只是建议。emily