Author Topic: 可否考虑一个职业精神解压版,叫happy工作和生活,帮助工作有压力的同学  (Read 11805 times)

emilystudy

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学习90%以上是自己的事情,工作就不完全可以自己掌控,有时也会遇人不淑, 可能是上司,可能是同事。怎样处理这些可能存在的工作负面压力,每个同学都有自己的经验,大家可以交流经验,互相帮助,别因为一点由于他人的问题而把我们自己搞成精神犹豫,想不开,影响健康,影响事业,(有的人还开枪杀了别人)。。。我们现在是同学,等工作之后就会是同行,我们应该互相帮助共同提高,这也是为什么我觉得在异域他乡找到Laotu老师的学校,就像找到了组织找到了家的感觉。只是建议。emily

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Hi Emily

Hope you can see my reply.

Before giving birth to my son, I was extremely unhappy about my last job. I resigned and felt VERY happy about that. After my son's birth and when he was older, I looked for jobs then realized because of the bad economy few ideal jobs in the market and the competition was strong.

Because we have a mortgage to pay and I need flexibility from my job as no parents around to help, I asked my previous boss if I could get my job back. Yes, I did and I felt VERY happy about it.

See the difference? Nothing outside has changed but myself.

I also believe it is true that if you are no happy about something, do something to change it, if you can not change it, change your attitude.

I was sensitive to the environment and people's reaction to me too. But then I figured out "So What?" I can be not happy, I have my attitude and rights too. Do not think too much about others, you are unique.

Best luck & take care.


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ingrid ,

谢谢你。我发现这里的同学很乐观很智慧,自己好像有回到了学生时代了。 Emily :)

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这就是?土校? 的特色, 没有一个大学can这么powerful

学习90%以上是自己的事情,工作就不完全可以自己掌控,有时也会遇人不淑, 可能是上司,可能是同事。怎样处理这些可能存在的工作负面压力,每个同学都有自己的经验,大家可以交流经验,互相帮助,别因为一点由于他人的问题而把我们自己搞成精神犹豫,想不开,影响健康,影响事业,(有的人还开枪杀了别人)。。。我们现在是同学,等工作之后就会是同行,我们应该互相帮助共同提高,这也是为什么我觉得在异域他乡找到Laotu老师的学校,就像找到了组织找到了家的感觉。只是建议。emily